Thursday, November 3, 2011

Breakups

The arsehole of relationships. The point at which the whole thing cocks up so badly that you just can't do it any longer.

I've had my fair share of infatuation gone wrong, even love turned sour at a couple of points. There was a time when I was jumping from one companionship to another, some more strong than others, and in the end it backfired and I fell into the most stereotypical crock of crap that one can write in a romance novel about the womaniser turned overly sensitive and jealous.

The thing is that breakups happen and even if it feels like one can never love again and it hurts so badly etc etc, you will get over it. Unless you are already depressive by nature and would end up offing yourself in a ditch somewhere, you'll grow from the experience.

That being said, I still don't think that people should stop pouring all their energy and passion into relationships. Go for it, fall head over heels in love and never give up hope that you have something wonderful for life because, in a way, even if it doesn't last, you will still have something wonderful for life. It is the good memories which will follow a healthy relationship that will always stay with you. Unfortunately so will the regret from a stupid one, but that's the risk that you should be willing to take.

On that note, live for life and love unconditionally.

Good afternoon, the interwebz

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